Idealistic vs. Realistic

I know its been a while but I'm back!!

Question:

Whats your ideal career?

After Embellished had to be slightly put on the back burner for an intense job search, I had no choice but to try and figure it out. I think we all have our ideal job, or at least a good idea of what we could see ourselves doing in life, but how often does that ideal position usually find the person that wants it? After just graduating, how often does the graduate land a position in their field? In such trying times as these with our economy in a shamble, with thousands of freshly minted graduates with no other choice but to jump into the workforce or fall behind and even more thousands laid off and out of a job in need of a quick replacement before the bills fall too far behind, is anyone still searching for that ideal job or is everyone running for cover?

Somewhere down the line, I think it has to be a mixture of both. The hunger for the ultimate opportunity may fall short to your expectations or your perceived idealistic approach, but being more realistic in this weakened yet even more competitive workforce may be the actual focus in job acceptances.

I think every opportunity has its benefits...no matter the field, just depends on the person accepting them. However, this is when looking at the bigger picture comes into play and not necessarily the specifics of the business. Business is all business, the specified field doesn't really matter and success is unlimited as long as you play the game. Challenge and make a name for your self, exceed expectations, have a strong work ethic, peform, network etc. These are just a few of the basics for what you go to school to learn. But once your actually in the workforce, it's then that you'll realize.... It's all a game, you win depending upon how you play. When you begin work at a performance based company, your priority is to perform no matter what it entails, right? You have to be ready to learn, ready to work and ready to be successful. Is that settling?

Being idealistic doesn't always truly interpret what position is the best fit. A person's ideals are sometimes confused with the outer looking in and not necessarily the hard work and effort that goes into. Being realistic assists in preparing you for those unexpected hard days of work but more importantly eliminates the BS and reveals a career path. Whether that path is seen through, broken, or reconstructed it will realistically take you in the direction of neccisity.

Be realistic, play the game....see the bigger picture.

Back...and Embellished!!!!

Custom Hoodie

The Doctor's daughter Erys turned 7 yrs old. So I made her a Custom Embellished Hoodie!

For your own Custom Hoodie, shoot me an email!

~Embellished

The Ability to Maintain

3am...Hurting with a tommy ache from eating waayy too honey buns, I can't help but reflect on life...yeah kinda weird right. It's such a fuckin a roller coaster. It has its highs, when your beating the streets cool as can be and ain't nothing stopping you. Damn sure has it's lows when the rain pores. But the odd times are seemingly cruise control but actually the most critical. You've somewhat figured out life for right now, gained an understanding of what should be accomplished and what it takes to get to the next level but there is always life's resistance sitting next to you with the constant reminder life isn't easy.


A few nights ago someone proposed a statement and asked me to fill in the blank.


"If I always have ____ I can be successful.


Initially blown away, I took a moment to gather my thoughts. I could think of all sorts of necessities that enables life success, but whose to say what the true determination is? Any one's answer could be purely based from circumstance or situation.


So I answered for me......."If I always have stability, I can be successful."


And not necessarily financial, or emotional or material stability, those are just bonuses. I mean personal stability. The will to want, and the ability to maintain after the foundation grown beneath me has been shaken with that same constant reminder. I could think backwards through my life. I grew up without a mother and I always knew that it was the worst thing that had happened to me, but it inevitable became my source of strength and taught me that nothing else can amount to worse so EFF the rest...thus, my somewhat careless demeanor. When it all hits the fan, I know the rain wont last forever and sooner than later the sun will shine and Ill collect my successes. My grandmother made sure I had foundation, and then it was up to me the analyze, understand and obtain the rest for myself and gaining my own personal stability became embedded. Knock me down, but Im getting back up! I may not have everything I want from life, but its just a matter of time before life success and highest potential bonuses will follow.

So now I challenge you to fill in the blank.


"If I always have______ I can be successful."

Photo by Derek Blanks
~Embellished

It's In!!!!

Yeeeahhhhh....... I got my Diploma in the Mail!!!

It was all good a week ago.....

ok, ok , ok.....I haven't been here in a while, so it's probably best if I update :)

Last Friday morning turned out to be a crazy one for Atlanta's West End boutique Fashion Industry. This being my neighboring store, I felt bad for them. An inside connect tells that an organized group of thieves known as the blue jean bandits hit their store like others around the city, this time RAMMING A STOLEN CAR INTO THE SECURED GATE AND THROUGH THE FRONT DOOR! Gun shots were even fired at the assailants!! Crazy right!!! Whats even crazier is...I slept through it all and didn't hear a sound!

This isn't the actual footage of Fashion Industry's break in, but it will provide a definite idea of how it all happened, and other stores around the city that have been robbed just the same.

Fox News, August 9, 2008

CLICK HERE


It's sad that the lively hood of Atlanta boutiques are put in jeopardy at the hands of thieves. Store owners are reluctant to purchase premium brands with fear that their store will be broken into. Having relationships with stores, I know first hand how a split second robbery can close a store for weeks at a time or even for good! This isn't the first time Ive seen a car driven into a store to create a pathway for thieves and I'm sure it wont be the last! Being robbed and having someone take from you what you've built is one of the worst feelings in the world!! Store owner's better lock it down!

The Rest of Weekend

So of course I headed over to Standard for Supreemes's Album release party. Me and G arrived doing their performance and the music sounded hot! But because the store is so narrow and their performance was staged as the back of the packed store, we weren't able to see them, so I took a quick glance around to get a feel for the store and their premium brands but before I knew we were out and headed off to the next adventure.

Ill have to check Standard on a not so busy day!

Be sure to check out Supreeme's Music

I asked for a change of scenario, and I guess I got it. Sol Fusion! I had never been before, but I had heard the Doctor mention it. The party was cracking! It's pretty much for the old school, hip hop crowd, they were break dancing and everything. I saw a couple of familiar faces but everything else was pretty new to me so I let loose and had a good time as was happy I went along for the ride.


The rest of the weekend seemed to go pretty smooth. It wasn't all play, as I productively checked out the Apparel Mart for merchandise on Saturday, and also a couple of stores for potential business relationships with Stitches. By the conclusion of the weekend, I had gotten some pretty concrete idea's jotted down for design and also got some more work done with my web designer. Pretty soon my site will be up and you'll be able to purchase!! The steady process continues.

CoCo Chanel

Ohhhh...... another big part of my weekend included the lifetime movie for Coco Chanel. It premiered on last Friday, but I caught snippets of it all weekend. If you haven't caught the must see, please check your local listings for replay. Its actually a motivational life story of how Coco Chanel came from nothing and conquered her dreams. I just have to catch it in it's entirety.


~Embellished

Market Research

When I have free time, one of my favorite things to do is cruise boutiques and hot retail locations and see whats in...whats selling, what apparel customers gravitate to, check out price points, different brands including non competition and just obtain an overall sense of what buyers are looking for including fabrics, feels, materials and design executions. This was pretty much a job requirement when I worked for Rocawear and LRG. We can call this Market Research! So when my homegirl invited me to Warner Bro. recording artist Supreeme's Album Release party, I was glad to accept! The venue is one of my all time "I have to go to stores"....STANDARD!!
I'm usually in the area sorta late grabbing Intermezzo's so as I cruise by the closed boutique I glue my face to the window trying to sneak a peak inside, but tomorrow no more! And that it's Supreeme's album release makes it even cooler. I'm sure this event will bring out some of the cities underground fashion elite, industry heads and will for sure be a change of pace from the average party scene.

As fashion goes hand and hand with music, Come & Enjoy Supreeme, sushi & drinks, nice clothes and fresh kicks....if you see me...say what up!! :)

~~Embellished

Finding Balance

Sometimes I'm at a loss for words. Not sure exactly what to do or where to turn next, I realize not everything will go as planned and I don't have an answer for it all. I feel as if no matter how hard I work, I'm still no where near where I want to be. Not with Stitches, not with Embellished and not with personal goals I've set for myself.

I know that things take time and patience is key.....blah blah blah, but I want it and I want it now!!!!! I'm just fucking tired! Excuse my language but I am. Sometimes you just get fed up no matter how promising a situation could potentially be and your not really sure why.

My friends tell me I work to much, but without question I don't have any other choice but to. Work=Money and Money makes the world go round! My hard work doesn't necessarily go without play, so I hit the city well dressed to some of the best parties and events, but trust me it is all the same! Different places same people, girls putting on, dudes thirsty to holler, crowded vip's, marijuana, spilt drinks and fucked up shoes. There was a time where I thought this was the coolest shit ever...but I've grown and I know better now.


Since I'm at Stitches so much, the Doctor is always telling me that I need a boyfriend. At this point, even that's over rated! It has its perks, but I don't think I want a boyfriend, I just don't feel like making the time, I do want a man though. The dudes I come across are either, not for me, extra thirsty or more than often just simply expect me to fall for the okey dope. Not happening! I'm from Chicago and a family who made sure I knew the bullshit when it came knocking. So as it approaches disguised as a cute new face or a nice car with dinner plans or an outing for drinks...I kindly dismiss it and keep it moving. I would rather hang at Stitches then go out with someone I'm not feeling....I don't even like drinking!

Yesterday I played hooky from business work and didn't even feel bad, the irony of it all is that I was still just as busy as if I went to work. A couple of the most successful people I know says that finding balance is one of life's greatest challenges. I quickly agree! Not everything is at your will to control. I have to work hard but I need to find some sort of balance so that everything isn't so repetitive. Just balance to keep me sane in my own crazy little world because my brand damn sure won't build itself.

~~Embellished

The Logo is In!!

So I don't know if you remember my last post where I had slight difficulty getting my logo done. My first option didn't quite pan out so I hit up a good homie of mine, told him what I wanted and he delivered!! So....it's officially in! And I'm super duper excited, it gives Embellished a face in a way!! But as bad as I want to post it from the roof top, I cant quite reveal the new logo just yet, but I promise when I do it will be well worth the wait.

For now...here's a sneak peak at my latest design.

As soon as I finished it, I was ready to wear it, but when I put it on..I spilled something on it!! BUMMER :( !!!! Guess I have to go to the dry cleaners.

~~Embellished

Don't Park Here!!

hello everybody!! :) Its been a minute since my last entry so it was a must that I update today!! It's been so much happening..I don't even know where to begin. But I'll feel you in on the basics and then get down to business.

My Labor Day weekend was pretty cool! I worked through Saturday and slightly partied in between. Feeling no way in particular I skipped Church on Sunday and opted to just getting organized for the week and working on my forever pending business plan. I know exactly what I want to do and how I want to do in regards to business and production but it's the hardest thing for me to do is to write it all down. It's a waste to have someone else write my plan. I'm perfectly capable, I just have to get focused on it because I know it's top necessity. When I did get out the house I ran a few quick errands then came home to cook a nice meal all for myself and watched TV until I fell asleep.

On my first Monday off in a super duper long time...I slept until 1pm. :) My kinda morning!!! Usually I hate it when I sleep past 9 or 10am, I feel as if I'm losing time. But Monday I didn't care at all! I got up for breakfast and then headed to check out my home girl G's new house. She showed me around and we headed back out the door for a breezy walk around her new nice, seemingly quiet and friendly neighborhood. They prepared to party hard at the pool though! When I made it back to my car, where G instructed me to park. I found a note:

LMAO.....How Rude! Thanks a lot G!

Anyways, I was slightly shocked that I hadn't spoke to the Doctor, I was almost sure that he would disregard the Holiday and call me down to the shop! I was slightly disappointed that he didn't though. I didn't have anything else to do. I find myself saying that infrequently so let me change that. I didn't have anything that I wanted to do. But I know for sure that when I have "nothing" to do, I have Embellished to do. Getting on top isn't easy!! Anyways, here's a few things we've been working on at Stitches.

Custom Boxing Uniform and Corner Jackets....

Jacket and Boots for Girl group, Couture.....they were going for the old school Janet.

These projects alone have obviously kept us pretty busy!! But like usual...the Doctor wants more work. So, if you need anything custom, altered, tailored, screened, embroidered etc. etc. whatever you want, we can do... Drop me an email or just feel free to contact us.

Stitches

43 Walton Street

Atlanta, GA 30303

404.827.9074

~~Embellished

Reap what you Sow

"Whether it's praise, love, criticism, money, time, power, punishment, space, sorrow, laughter, need, pain, or pleasure... the more of it that you give, the more of it you will receive." Unknown

An Woman's Inspiration...

I can't help but to be inspired by Michele Obama, she's cool beans!

"The only limit to the height of your acheivements is the reach of your dreams and your willingness to work hard for them." -Michele Obama

Every great man needs a strong willed woman by his side.

~~Embellished

A Message.....

Hello World...after just enjoying a nice lunch, I returned to my office to find a nice note from a random person and thought I would share it:

"BE REAL. Stay TRUE to yourself and you will be VALUED by others. LOVE yourself so that others can as well. NEVER let anyone pull you down or get the best of you. So many people are out there to get you.Set goals and standards. ACCOMPLISH them. FUCK MISTAKES made in the past. Its not about the mistake its about OVERCOMING them and not letting them rule YOUR WORLD. There is a time where you have to step up and make something of yourself. Become IMPORTANT. Become TREASURED. Like people always say, tomorrow is never promised. So make things right from the beginning. Mold YOUR LIFE into what you want it to be.... And FUCK those who stand against it. "- A myspace friend

Sometimes you receive signs from the universe that says everything you need it to say...... I'm sure that this is one of them.

~~Embellished

Claiming My Star

Ask for what you want and you Shall receive! I started my day off with a long list of business work including Stitches and Embellished. Like usual, I mutlitasked doing everything at once, but I knew I had to focus on a few particulars in order to break even for the day. After handling the basics I got down to business but would lose my focus out of the pure necessity of just wanting to rest. I thought about my Embellish Me list and decided to display it in view for my desk. Whenever I would lose focus...I got a glimpse of the list and got right back on track. This really works! You should try it! I've tried this before, but instead of a list, I used pictures of material things that I knew if I achieved my goals I would be able to have. But I didn't take to it as much as I take to the list. Different things work for different people, but try coming up with something that will motivate you throughout the day. By the time I had noticed, I had even completed tasks that were due for the next day and was definitely ahead of the game.

It's been crunch time down at Stitches these last couple of weeks and me being the manager and knowing the Doctor needs me, I have to be there. But as I prepared myself for another busy production evening, I got a call from the Doctor..... And just like that, I had the day off! :) Finally a break and I couldn't wait.

After finishing more work and running a few errands it was me time! I felt like a bear coming out of hibernation. I sat outside and enjoyed the breezy weather doing absolutely nothing at all. When it became dark, I looked up and noticed I was sitting under a single bright shining star. I realized I had everything I needed... an opportunity and determination.

It made me appreciate my break and made me even more hopeful. This was exactly the kind of day I needed and I'm happier than what I have been in a while. Instead of trying to find happiness I disregarded luxuries, but I find that the harder I work the more blessed I am anyway.

Before the night ended I scheduled my day for tomorrow. Business work as usual, production work at Stitches, a meeting with my web designer and planning for the weekend. I fell asleep claiming my star.

"You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life." Albert Camus

~~Embellished

Somebody Stole My Clothes

A couple of days ago...I was just saying to myself that I hadnt had a dream in a long time. Ironically, I happen to have a dream last night. Mannnn......I woke up pissed off! I had a dream that someone...I dont know who....came into my house and stole ALL of my clothes...every piece...didnt leave me anything!! I knew I had to be dreaming because otherwise, I usually wouldn't have been as calm as I appeared in my dream. Luckily for whoever the theif was....I woke up to find everything still in tact!!

Anways...things have seemed as if they are movng so fast all around...if i dont catch a break soon I think ill run out of gas. Starting bright and early I move from one project to the next, meeting to meeting and usually dont make it home until maybe 12am on a good night, and still do Embellished for myself. I try to catch naps here and there, but they usually end up slowing my day down. So in effort to keep myself focused I decided to list a few daily reminders for myself named it Embellish Me, and placed it on my mirror to see each morning...its all about making life better right?!

EMBELLISH ME

1. GOD COMES FIRST

2. 7AM WAKE UP- BE PUNCTUAL

3. MANAGE, DON’T LET YOUR WORK MANAGE YOU

(SCHEDULE YOUR DAY)

4. ORGANIZATION= EFFICIENCY

5. SAVE AT ALL COSTS

6. TIME IS NOT WAITING FOR YOU

(YOUR WORK IS NEVER DONE)

7. SLEEP IS FOR SUCKERS

8. HARNESS RELATIONSHIPS-NETWORK

9. TALK THAT TALK…WALK THAT WALK

(FOLLOW UP & FOLLOW THROUGH)

10. WRITE EVERYTHING DOWN

LEARN, LIVE, GROW
REACH FOR THE SKY. ONLY YOU CAN STOP YOU

~~Embellished

Dymond Wayz

Dymond Wayz

238 Walker Street SW

Suite 1

Atlanta, GA 30313

http://www.dymondwayzonline.com/

Over the weekend I bumped into a familiar face Kesh Monroe, CEO and owner of Dymond Wayz as she prepared for a photo shoot featuring Muffy Cupcakeopia. I first met Kesh a few years back while she worked her accessories booth on Clark Atlanta's promenade. Now she has her own store of exclusive accessories with billboards and all!

I've always admired her hustle....she's a perfect example of someone having a dream and getting down to business!!

"AMBITION WITHOUT AUTHENTICITY SPOILS THE RICHES"

-Dymond Wayz

~Embellished

Shayla Dru Crozier

Check out my little cousin Shayla at her first modeling shoot!

Apples dont fall far from the tree!

~~Embellished

Meet Hannibal Matthews

So you've heard me talk about the Great Hannibal Matthews Photography as I've featured a few of his pics. On Sunday...though it was suppose to be a Church and Embellished ONLY day, he asked for my assistance so I kindly pushed some things aside to go hang out, step into his element and catch some of the behind the scenes action!

Meet Mr. Hannibal Matthews...
LOL...I laugh every time I see this pic (I took it myself) ....Anyways, this is the man behind the masterpieces. Self taught, slightly quiet... he's one of the most creative dudes I know...

Though we've worked together before, this time he clued me in on set up, and a few of his own personal techniques..even gave me my own camera and film to play around with.

So if ever in need of an Awesome photographer...look me up...just kidding. Hannibal is definitely the man for the job! He's already won my bid!!
It's a FUNWORLD....I just live in it ;)

~Embellished

Put your Dukes Up!

Since my last blog...Ive been crazy busy!!! I feel like I'm fighting time, but a fight that I know I'll win. Continuing on the Up and Up I have been rather productive... some days more than others but overall things are coming together. After giving myself goals each with a defined deadline and visibly being able to see them every day, it makes it easier for me to get up and get going with whatever task at hand! The weekend was slow for me, but I did get a chance to rest from the mayhem earlier in the week. I had a dinner meeting with a Brand Architect who by the way left his wallet at home...mmhhh....niggas! Anyways...I appreciated the challenged meeting. I knew sooner than later I would run into someone who wouldn't quite understand my mission. While his views of my brand were completely out of sync, I had the delightful opportunity to correct them.

When you think of Embellished...what do you think??


Embellish-verb
1. to beautify by or as if by ornamentation; ornament; adorn.
2.to enhance (a statement or narrative) with fictitious additions.

True enough, but for me Embellished has a definition of it own. Call it redirection or innovation, I just know how I feel about it. Embellished isn't about gaudy clothes or ghetto jeweled out pieces...not my style! Its simply my simplistic approach of dressing stylish yet edgy, well-educated, progressive, multifaceted strong individuals. Though young in age, I am well experienced. My resume of proficiencies include numerous trades and fields. From sports, to trading floors, from horticulture to merchandising, from working with persons with disabilities to entrepreneur programs, from sales for major clothing brands to now starting my own brand, and my greatest accomplishment yet of winning a full scholarship to Clark to obtaining two B.A's, and not to mention I am a strong beautiful black woman, chasing my own money bags and a man's queen at my will. Along each stepping stone I've acquired some knowledge that has enhanced my life and damn sure got me where I am today and steadily progressing. Individuals as such is who Embellished represents. Once inspired by my approach of Embellished being a lifestyle brand, he quickly changed his views and realized I had changed the definition all together.

"Her collection is in sync with the progressive woman: feminine, modern & bold in spirit. Her goal is to provide body conscious garments with fine fabrics at a moderate price to leave her clients confident in being fit to conquer the task at hand. The collection rejects limitations and inspires others to create a stitch-by-stitch progression into their ideals."
~Brand Architect


....Yeah that sounds more like it!!

~Embellished

Photography by the Great Hannibal Matthews
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Kiss the Sky

(This picture is sooo dope...when I got a sneak peak, I had to share it! Photography by the man himself...Hannibal Matthews. If your not familiar with his work then you should be...He's one of my homies, check out more of his work!)

Just like that picture...I feel like I'm touching the sky and nothing can stop me! It's so crazy how the world works around you. Put something out in the universe, be optimistic and it will find you through anything. Jump through loops, hop over barrels...slow poke through the pouring rain, it may not come when you want it and damn sure not on your terms but God has a way to give you everything you ask for and all you have to do is receive and accept his blessings. You just have to believe and need what you ask for. Yesterday my day was SO awesome! Nothing in particular happened, just little signs that things were all headed in my direction...I just found my self in a great mood, still today too.

Everything around me just speaks...OK I'm not crazy or anything :) but seriously in due time everything around you will reveal itself. Whether a hindrance to let go, help to capitalize on or just something or someone that helps make your world go round. Everything and everyone is put in your life for a reason or a season. Its up to you to realize whether it's a positive addition for your life or not. Some things are worth holding on to while others are not. Once revealed...its up to you to rid trouble and/or encourage excellence. Through the ups and downs... my life is grand and I wouldn't trade it for anyone else's. Everything is in my favor cause I want it that way and you should want the same for yourself to.

By the time I reached Stitches yesterday the Doctor had already left so it was just me and Les, he's one of our tailors. He's old school with major skills. He used to be in a singing group something like the Temptations and would make all the uniforms. The man is nice with it too, he taught me how to make a vest last night. A vest may sound easy to make, but its definitely not, but it's a for sure sign that ill need to keep him on my team too. I keep telling the Doctor that Ill have to put Stitches on my back and carry us...he's all for it though "just pay me the big bucks!!" The other day we had to get a shirt order out for Jazz of Dru Hill, who by the way has decided to get the group back going. The Doctor was out of town and of course had to call me :) The shirt was pretty easy to me but of course the Doctor was worried that something would go wrong...but of course I pulled through with flying colors and you know I had to let him know that I was the Doctor.


So for those of you who are interested in Embellished for men...dont worry I wont leave you hanging! Not quite along the lines of the shirt for Jazz but Like the Doctor always says "I got you".

"What makes a river so restful to people is that it doesn't have any doubt - it is sure to get where it is going, and it doesn't want to go anywhere else."

-Hal Boyle

~Embellished

Free Isn't Always Free!!

OK, so to get straight to the point, I'm a tab bit upset. In hopes that on yesterday I would have an opportunity to work on the logo after almost a month of trying to meet with the designer....that meeting still didn't take place! We've both been busy, but I have to question moving forward after yesterday. Not that he isn't a cool dude or that I'm not mindful of his demanding work schedule, but to be frank...he's on my time and pressing my patience. I've expressed to him on a couple of occasions that its important that I get things moving. I've even reduced his input from designs to simply my logo, still nothing. Get this, at the beginning he questioned my dedication and said that we have to meet so that he can see how serious I am. Dude, are YOU serious?!?! I'm pretty blunt when it comes to business and especially people perhaps taking my sweet charming personality for weakness :) I told him plain and simple... "Get with it or get left behind...in any event I'll still give you the what up when I see you." Sometimes people have to know your about your business...no prob!


Time has flew by, dates have been set and no meeting and its not all his fault, but he doesn't even want to send logo or design options via email. I thought maybe I was missing something, I asked if he was looking for pay. He replied, "no we're cool people I want to help you". I can greatly appreciate any one's willing assistance, but no productivity is a sure sign that the "help" is more of a hindrance. His free services have cost me weeks of time, and I've been compensated with Nada...back to the drawing board. But hey...it happens. I'm not bitter, its just better if Im not at a stand still and actually moving toward my goal.

A learning lesson...free doesn't always mean free. Learn when to cut your loses and don't make a small hindrance a larger disappointment. What price are you willing to pay for your time and success?

However, I can say that despite the minor setback...I was still quite productive on yesterday. I pulled an all nighter and got ALOT accomplished...wasn't so bad either.

~Embellished

Managing My Hustle

Quite often you have to step away from what your doing to get a better view of things. A trip well worth it, but I'm glad to be back in Atl...back to sewing, back to Stitches and back to Embellished. I know that though I'm off to a good start, I'm no where close to where I want to be right now. Though this is new to you, I've known what I wanted for a while now. So its obviously time to stop basking in the excitement of take off and start pulling it all together. I have everything I need right at my fingertips just don't have a grip on it the way I want to.


Sometimes I wish there were more hours in a day...then I realize I'm waisting time wishing on something that will never happen. So first, I devised a plan to better allocate my time. I wrote a list of start-up accomplishments and gave myself deadlines to complete them, i.e. logo, business & marketing plan, research, sourcing manufacturers & wholesalers, potential investors, ordering business cards and promo material, brand launch, etc, etc. The list goes on! To get started, I'm actually meeting with a designer tonight to take a look at a few logo options. I've been trying to meet with this dude for weeks now but our contradicting schedules hasn't allowed it. Hopefully all goes well with our meeting tonight.

Second, Sunday is a day for Church and Embellished...nothing else. I have to stick to this because I can easily allow distractions to creep in the mix.

Easy enough, right? OK, now the part that hurts!! Because there aren't enough hours in a day amongst all of my other responsibilities...Ive decided that waking up at my usual 8am wont cut it anymore. Instead, 6am would give me a couple of hours to work for myself before the rest of the world needs me. For those that know me....that's already TOO damn early. But I realize that sacrificing a few hours of sleep is worth my success. I'm usually a night owl...staying up all hours of the night, but then I wouldn't want to get up in the mornings at all and when i did...I pretty much hated the world! But that has to change and I know that the change is now. It's better for me to place a stamp on what has to happen and devise a plan, that way I know where I'm headed and how long it actually takes to get there.

If giving up the small luxury of a couple of hours of sleep and other in particular things like hanging out is the price I pay for becoming victorious, then I'm ready to sit on my throne because everything else just isnt as important.

"Until you value yourself, you won't value your time. Until you value your time, you won't do anything with it." M. Scott Peck

~Embellished

Birds of a Feather....

Completely confused about my flight arrangement....I missed it and was forced to find another way to Jackson to surprise my bf for her Master's graduation. Determined to make it to support her biggest accomplishment...I decided that my best option would be to take the bus ride. 7 to 8 hrs wasn't so bad, it finally gave me time to just sit down and relax from my usual "work like crazy-on the go" daily regimen. I didn't even talk on the phone, just kept quiet in a thought process reading magazines and books I had brought for my trip.

Finally, upon hopping off the bus in Jackson, MS, I sat on a bench waiting for my ride. Out of no where, a boy proposed a question "what size necklace do u wear?" Knowing what was coming next, I asked why and he pulled out his merchandise, a gold necklace...ummmmm "no thanks." Welcome to Jack-town I thought.

When the hotel door swung open, to my bf's surprise, it was me walking in. She went crazy...lol...jumping on me and eagerly excited that I was there. Well welcomed...the night went on and of course so did the partying.

Bright and early the next day, we were headed to graduation. So proud of my bf, I couldn't help but reflect on our life long friendship. Friends since I could remember, there is nothing I couldn't tell her. If ever in need, she would be the first I call. After leaving for college though miles apart, our friendship has never broken and our excitement to see each other on visits has never faded. We came from nothing together and today she grabbed her Master's. I can't describe how proud I am of her. Ive never had to fake with her, our friendship is genuine. God has not only blessed me with a friend I can admire but as you can see from the picture, one that supports me all the same.

"Surround yourself around positive people and positive energy will manifest itself."

~Embellished

Success is Inevitable

Have u ever felt a sense of release or freedom? Or like God placed a ladder of success in front of you and all you had to do was focus on it and climb up? That was me on yesterday. I feel like if i focus on anything i really want, it will come to me..seemingly unreachable but just that easy. In such a good mood I decided to attend Atlanta's Y-3 fashion show and after party. Being a little under the weather, I slept and missed the fashion show but the after party was an overall great atmosphere to be apart of. The crowd was just right, not too many people...just enough with plenty of new faces ;) It gave me the opportunity to meet a few newbies, hang out and catch up with a few homies that I don't get a chance to see as often, hear what's going on in the industry and perhaps get some outside insight on my line and its direction.

I couldn't help but enjoy myself joking around in spirit of the day starting my blog an all. Receiving so much great feedback really has me excited about all the things to come. Not even the rain could put a damper on my parade, however the dudes who impolitely stole my homegirl's umbrella almost did. As we left the event we stood outside covered from the pouring rain. We both had umbrella's but just stood around joking with some "homies" and decided to allow them use of G's umbrella to make it dry to their car. In turn...they never returned...suckers! How do u steal a ladies umbrella in the pouring rain!! Lol...*smh


After me and G concluded our night I headed back downtown to Stitches. The doctor was still at it, but took a break and we headed to Landmark for food. After telling him a few times about my blog he was still confused about what a blog is...lol. Don't mind him, he's not cut off from the world just chooses to dedicate his time to family, Stitches and sewing...can't be mad at that! The Doctor is funny because no matter what it is your doing he wants to know if your reaching to make us known and getting to the money... my kinda dude!
After food(salmon, mashed potato's and vegetables)which was great by the way, I headed home to prepare for my trip to Jackson, MS for the weekend where my best friend is grabbing her Master's. I'm surprising her, she doesn't even know I'm coming :) wish me a safe trip!

P.S- I couldn't end this without thanking everybody for your support...when my line drops...u better buy something! :)

~Embellished



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Embellish Me

Actually, I'm almost nervous starting this blog....under the assumption its my outlet to the world...I almost forgot the world might be watching. Some may think of me as an energetic social butterfly who loves to talk and be out and about, but I'm somewhat shy and most days just enjoy being quiet. I keep to myself and as a true Sag, I'm hesitant to open my circle up to outsiders...but I'm here now huh? As you read along, you'll better understand me as a person, business woman, and how I derive my own creative uniqueness to build my own little empire.

As this is my introduction, you can call me Elle...you know, like the Elle Magazine or the Letter L, that's usually what I tell people when they seem as if they don't understand me when I say my name. I'm just me, cool as can be. My somewhat careless demeanor not only gets me in trouble at times, but forces me to only care about the highly important matters that truly deserve my attention. Honestly, I think the only thing that deserves my attention at this point in my life is God, my family and becoming wealthy by all means. I grind everyday to have my own and you cant fit my hustle. My personal drive and wanted accomplishments have brought me here. I want more from life than just average. I'm taking mine and you should too.

I think its a great fit for me...but this wasn't on purpose, I fell into the fashion scene. I accidentally interned at Rocawear for 1 outfit a week....lol. I laugh now but my pure passion grew from there. It opened my whole world up being exposed to so much. I was able to view different aspects of the clothing game through sales, travels, trade shows, retailers, department stores, mentors and built relationship. At that point in my life is where I ultimately grew from a young lady to a woman, really handling business. You can't stop me if you tried. I moved on to work for other brands and I currently manage a design studio named Stitches where I met the Stitch Doctor. He pretty much taught me everything I know about designing so far and we're still crafting. Now having a few years strong in the industry, experience under my belt and business minded...my scope is focused on something so much bigger than I've accomplished in the past...my own clothing brand...Embellished

Hot name right?? :) It was almost something else but I'm excited that it came down to this one. Being in the design studio has this automatic creative brainstorm effect on me. Embellished just popped in my head one day and having a strong desire to enhance my life, Embellished just seemed to fit perfectly. I'm pretty much in the beginning fazes of design work. Running through different ideas, expanding on them if they're good and filing others. No idea is a bad idea, it just may not be good for the moment. I thought of doing the average screen print t'shirt thing, but I want more than just that. Of course, my brand is a representation of me, my simplistic lifestyle, my colorful persona with all of my life's lessons, schooling and everyday knowledge that enhance me, yet bold, funky and creative.

A couple of weeks ago...I designed a dress. While piecing it together I wasn't sure what my direction was. I asked the Dr. what he thought and he was iffy on it. He's my critic. Once complete he smiled with a chuckle...and I knew I had the seal of approval.. lol, I love it when I can wow him and shake my head and tell him that I'm the "Doctor".

Straight from scratch...I surprised myself. Outside of ''making'' my barbie clothes without second thought while I was a kid, this was my first piece. My Pride and Joy. I was excited...I couldn't believe how well it had turned out. And I'm not just saying that cause I made it...lol...it was actually Hot!! Well detailed if I might say so myself. I wore it out the other night and my little blue dress was the center of attention. The dudes were watching and the ladies complimented politely. Don't believe me....See for your self...

~Embellished